Society teaches us to behave in certain ways - the way we dress up on every new fashion year, the place we hang out, the food we put on Instagram and alot more. There's no written rules in the society, but it is there for us to observe and adjust - as they hope so. … Continue reading Lead Us Not Into Temptation
Tag: Life
With The Eyes of Faith
As a human being, I tend to see by sight and not by faith - even though I've got that verse years ago. When the days are bright and the nights are clear, I can surely see things with my faith. But when stormy days await, I become impatient and decide to use my own … Continue reading With The Eyes of Faith
The Power of The Dream
It is the 12th day of 2015 and I’ve been using my brain to think too much. One condition that got me to a lot of places, and also to a lot of down moment. But hey, I’d rather see that as my blessing, because I won’t do reckless stuff or let myself into danger … Continue reading The Power of The Dream
Forgiveness: An Available Option
During hard times, it seems impossible for us to see the possible outcomes and lessons in the future. We focus our attention to the most effective way of reducing the stress and manage the problems. During this time, other people in your life will play their parts - either as part of problem-solving, or they contribute … Continue reading Forgiveness: An Available Option
Butterfly in The Stomach
Normal life is something that most people want to embrace. Women would say that they prefer to have a normal life with a normal husband and normal children. Men would say that they prefer a normal working life with normal colleagues and normal salary. The thing is how we can define normality in life? Your … Continue reading Butterfly in The Stomach
Drama in The Morning
I hate drama movie, novel with drama or anything related to drama. Do not mention Korean drama to me, I won't have appetite to even hear what you say. Sarcastic? As in drama, this morning I had an unusual morning routine. My head told me that I have to finish some paper works (exam papers, … Continue reading Drama in The Morning
Love Thyself
It is always easier for us to tell others on what to do. We talk as if we know the best possible advice and what-to-do lists for others. But honestly, most of the time, this method works one-way. Out of the many advice we give to others, we only apply a few of them to … Continue reading Love Thyself
After A Long Journey
Hey everyone! I am back on track after being away for 4.5 months from this blog. I have been busy and happy managing my new project - and somehow losing my grip on this one. Guilty as charged. As I am being away, I learn a lot of things along the way. I learned that … Continue reading After A Long Journey
Psychoeducation: Trip to Hell or Understanding
As I lay myself to sleep, I turn on the radio and stumbled into a talk about sex. The speaker is called 'an expert' of sexual life (I missed the first part of introduction). This type of talk is one form psychoeducation, in which psychologists are responsible to educate society regarding certain topics. The objective … Continue reading Psychoeducation: Trip to Hell or Understanding
Feeling Unlovable
One occupational hazard of being a psychologist is I tend to observe everything around me - what I heard, what I see and what I read between the lines. People may express their feelings and emotions in many ways. And the other party also owns their own ways to be reactive. Today I want to … Continue reading Feeling Unlovable
My Writing Paper 