Along the way and through every corner, I have met numbers of parents. Ideally, parents are able to love and accept their children as who they are. But, in reality, it is hard to find the ideal conception of being parents. Yesterday, I talked to my Aunt. She has 3 son, but her eldest son … Continue reading Children: Miracle or Curse?
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In Between Marriage and Funeral
Last week, I heard a bad news about my old friend. Her mom suddenly passed away in the morning when she was about to feed her pet at the back of the house. She died just after she arrived at the hospital. She's been diagnosed with a heart problem since young and diabetes, but for … Continue reading In Between Marriage and Funeral
The Importance of Image (Is that really important?)
As I am writing this post, I stand at 'Doctor Lounge' in a hospital where I work as a Psychologist. I look through a big window and I see an old almost-die car at the parking lot. Interestingly, the car is parked at one of those lots for 'doctors only'. While looking down at the … Continue reading The Importance of Image (Is that really important?)
65th Wedding Anniversary? Surely A Hardwork!
On my flight to Australia, I read a book by Scott Peck - the well known 'The Road Less Traveled'. I reached the second big theme, Love. He wrote that love is an act of courage and a hardwork. Love is effortful, unlike falling in love, which is effortless. When the two persons are out … Continue reading 65th Wedding Anniversary? Surely A Hardwork!
Life Itself is A Traveling
Many people say that they love traveling. They enjoy the fun of doing it and how each travel can add happiness to their bucket of happiness. But what is the real definition of traveling? How can you define traveling? For me, traveling is a media. Of course, traveling can also be a goal to achieve. … Continue reading Life Itself is A Traveling
Worry For The Worthy
How many times we let ourselves weary? How many hours we let our hearts pounding too fast and heads spinning heavily - just because we worry? None of us never experience weariness. Being worry is naturally part of our humanity. The sense of weariness can be our alarm system when something is not going to … Continue reading Worry For The Worthy
Lessons from ‘The Road Less Traveled’
This journey of reading 'The Road Less Traveled' by Scott Peck is very personal for me. I've heard about this phenomenal book since years ago - but I always find the excuse of not borrowing or buying this book. Until about a month ago when I was in faculty's library. I was looking for some … Continue reading Lessons from ‘The Road Less Traveled’
Silence: Part of Solution or Problem?
I believe you've heard people say: "Let's sleep on the problems". Or maybe you heard: "I wish the problems will go away by themselves". Or maybe you say it to others every now and then? Unfortunately problems can't help themselves, they need to be solved. As Scott Peck stated in his book "The Road Less … Continue reading Silence: Part of Solution or Problem?
Living in the Tunnel of Past Life
These past few days, I've got a daily text message from a-44-year-old woman who complained about what happened to her 30 or 35 years ago. She is a big fan of a used-to-be famous child singer in Indonesia, since 35 years ago. She is very proud of the fact that she is able to get … Continue reading Living in the Tunnel of Past Life
Expect The Unexpected
I believe we hear the saying of 'expect the unexpected' many times from many different occasions. This saying somehow sends a message to our mind that we need to be ready - in facing many unexpected happenings. 'Unexpected' is prone to be defined as 'something bad happen suddenly' or 'something happen out of plan'. But … Continue reading Expect The Unexpected
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