Today is a big day for my friend, Imelda and her husband, Erizal. Yes, today is their wedding day.
Wedding day is usually seen as the final point of a relationship. Once you get married, then everything will be settle and finally reach the safe point. But, is that true?
For me, wedding day is the last day of including other people in a couple’s life. Because on a wedding day, the whole world should stay as an outsider, and the couple must struggle to maintain their relationship. Sometimes the world struck hard on their marriage, or even worse, the whole world is against them.
Can they maintain it? The answer is depending on how hard the commitment that they have.
I have a best friend who told me once that in a relationship, those two people are like two porcupines who are trying their best to warm each other, without hurting each other with their spikes. It sounds hard, and yes, it is hard to do, but not impossible to do.
I am now still at the wedding party … I was wondering how other people perceive wedding day and marriage, when suddenly a girl beside me cried aloud. She cried in the middle of her meal and looked so sad.
After a while, I asked her why. She said, it is due to psychological condition. I asked no further questions.
I am still wondering what’s going on in her mind and heart about wedding day and marriage.
What’s in your mind about wedding day and marriage?
Writing is my way to share it to you.