Lately I've been fighting myself - big time. When I see someone I know is traveling abroad, a spark of jealousy comes up. My own thought will serve that feeling rightaway by saying: "yes, she has a better life than you", "she is smarter than you" or, "you are just an average woman". When someone … Continue reading Inner Feeling
Love is something magical. When people in love, they would do anything! Anything. They would change everything! Why? Because they are in love. People will translate falling in love as a LOVE itself. But it is not (Read: The Road Less Traveled by Scott Peck - for further insight). Love is way beyond that scope. … Continue reading Love Until It Hurts
Here we go. The topic that society love. The number on your scale, the size of your hips and how much fat one can have. Last week I had a day-trip to a beautiful Bali. I would like to stay longer, but I had an important meeting the next day in Surabaya. While I was … Continue reading So You Think I am Fat?
It's been a very long while since my last post! I just found out a few moments ago that my account was expired, due to technical issue on my automatic payment. All good now and I am in a good mood to write something here. Expectation. We all have it. You just have to admit … Continue reading Expectation and Heartache
If you love to visit bookstores, you will see numerous books on parenting, how-to books on children and thousands different wrap on the same topic. It is as if every new parents want to share their personal journey on 'what and how' of parenting. Not to mention the experts. Well, it is true that every … Continue reading Motherhood: A Personal Note
There is a little girl who bears sincerity in her heart and willingly she lend her only tablet cover to her grand Aunty. She said that she could use the cheap cover for a while. She didn't have any understanding that her mother spent certain amount of money to buy that original cover to protect … Continue reading Through The Eyes of A Little Girl
How old are you today? You answer marks the length of your life so far. You know exactly how many years you've been living in this Earth. You can flip through your memory photo album and seek your birthday celebration when you were 6, 17 or 30. You can see the smiles that you put … Continue reading Apps to Edit Your Life
When I see my little nephew playing around, I can hear the voice of his mom reminds him to be careful, not to climb on the couch or stop hitting the cat with his bike. It is as if his mother builds fences around him. He needs to learn what-to-do and what-not-to-do since very young, … Continue reading Are You Holding The Pencil?
In my line of work, I have the privilege to meet a lot of people - listen to their stories and mapping their cognitive functions. By doing so, the process of psychotherapy will serve as the basis for my clients in understanding their way of thinking, distorted belief or simply to know that they have … Continue reading Altering Mental Block
I am a lazy bump. For the past 10 days I've stayed at my parents with my big belly - 34 weeks old. My ob-gyn told me to have a rest and take an off from work. I never had such a privilege since I got pregnant - and I think my baby feels relieved … Continue reading Lemonade, Anyone?